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现在的新生代准父母多为80后,他们面临各种各样的现实问题,心理压力更大,经常出现自己的孩子请长辈帮忙带,面对孩子手足无措,对孩子的养育非常不自信,以及和长辈教育理念不同。为什么80后心理问题如此之多呢?

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一、现实压力太大


我国80后多为独生子女,婚后就要面临赡养4位老人,加上房贷、车贷,经济压力可想而知。80后目前处于事业拼搏时期,对孩子关心教育有力无心,即使想要陪伴孩子,也仅剩工作休息时间,不得不借助长辈帮忙。热播剧《蜗居》曾有一段台词,“孩子喝进去要奶粉,拉出来要用尿不湿,进出都要钱,整个一双向收费。”孩子的出生给80后们又加上一座压力大山,进阶为“孩奴”


回忆一下我们的童年,没有游乐场,没有昂贵的玩具,没有进口的零食,可是我们依然有无尽的乐趣。对于孩子来说,爸爸抱起来举高高,远比任何玩具都更有吸引力。孩子需要父母的关心与陪伴,这些都是物质条件所无法取代的。


二、自己还是孩子


家中出现“小公主”、“小王子”基本是从80后开始的,相对比来说,80后比较以自我为中心,希望自己的生活质量不会因为孩子的到来而降低,希望可以想玩就玩,或者随时来一场说走就走的旅行。
80后大多喜欢自由,婚育年龄晚很多都是在长辈的催促中完成,更有甚者,把结婚生子当做完成任务。孩子出生后,自己的任务完成了,至于孩子,直接交给父母,只负责生不负责养。


三、过度担心


由于现在市场爆发的食品安全问题,很多80后父母对于孩子的饮食安全更加注意。进口奶粉已经成为标准配置,有的家长甚至连孩子的饼干、饮品都选择进口的。一味追求国外产品,可是,进口奶粉可能并不适合中国宝宝,而且,也不一定安全。


除了食品安全,孩子的衣、住、行都有讲究。衣服担心有荧光剂、滑石粉,出门担心有人贩子,走路都怕孩子会摔跤。这些担心会让自己陷入紧张与麻烦,还会让长辈们无所适从,担心孩子的安全是好事,可是过度担心,就会引发不必要的心理问题。


四、没有经验


80后独生子女较多,没有兄弟姐妹,也很少有和小孩子接触的机会,没有照顾小孩子的经验。当自己的孩子突然到来,就会变得手忙脚乱,不知道从哪里下手。有的会借助育儿书上的理论,结果只是照搬照抄;有的会上网查询,结果无法分辨有用信息,最后都会让自己更加迷茫。


世界上没有一样的两片树叶,也没有两个相同的孩子,所以在养育孩子的问题上,可以选择借鉴,但是更多的还是要根据孩子本身,及时调整自己的养育方法。和孩子一起学会成长,不断积累经验,变得增加成熟。


80后的压力是很大,但是作为父母,就要承担起这份责任。反过来想,其实这不仅是责任,还是一种甜蜜,孩子的甜美的笑脸、银铃般的笑声,都是父母最甜蜜的收获。父母是孩子第一任老师,不要让孩子的成长过程中缺少父母的陪伴。

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